The What, When & Why of Nap-Saving for Babies + Toddlers
When it comes to baby sleep, there’s no shortage of advice. But there’s one simple tool that can make a big difference—especially during those tricky moments when your little one wakes up too early or seems exhausted well before nap time. Meet: the bridging nap.
In this blog, we’re unpacking everything you need to know about bridging naps—what they are, when to use them, why they work (and when they don’t), plus practical tips to apply in your own home. Whether you’re navigating newborn sleep or chasing after a toddler, this guide will help you add another handy tool to your parenting toolkit.
What Is a Bridging Nap?
A bridging nap is a short, 10-15 minute power nap, usually done on the go—whether that’s in the pram, the car, a carrier, or even while feeding on the couch. It’s not about forcing sleep or sticking to rigid routines; it’s about offering your little one a gentle reset when their sleep debt is building up too quickly.
The purpose? To shave off just enough tiredness to get them comfortably through to their next proper nap or bedtime—without tipping them into overtired meltdown territory.
When Should You Use a Bridging Nap?
Bridging naps are most helpful in a few common scenarios:
Early morning wake-ups: If your baby wakes for the day at 5:00 AM and their first proper nap isn’t until 8:30 or 9:00 AM, a bridging nap around 6:30 AM can help stretch them through the morning.
Early nap refusal: Some babies simply can’t last long enough to make it to their usual nap window. A short nap earlier in the day can help balance their tiredness.
Disrupted schedules: After a busy morning out or a rough night, a quick bridging nap can recalibrate your baby’s day.
Generally, bridging naps work best for babies under six months of age. That’s because their sleep cycles are still maturing, and their wake windows are shorter. Bridging naps can help establish more consistent patterns without throwing off the day’s rhythm.
Why Bridging Naps Work
Our babies’ sleep is guided by two things:
Circadian rhythm (their natural body clock), and
Sleep pressure (the build-up of tiredness from being awake).
Bridging naps are a smart way to balance sleep pressure without completely wiping it out. By offering a quick reset, you reduce just enough tiredness to avoid crankiness, but you still preserve enough sleep drive for proper nap times and a good night’s sleep.
When these two systems—circadian rhythm and sleep pressure—work together, sleep gets easier. Bridging naps can help babies settle more predictably for their main naps and bedtime.
Real-Life Examples: When It Works (and Doesn’t)
One parent inside the Thriving Together membership had an excellent question:
“When is it too late for a bridging nap?”
Her twin toddlers, 18 months old, fell asleep on the way home from playgroup at 11:30 AM. She attempted to transfer them to bed for a full nap. It worked one day—but failed miserably the next. This is a reality of parenting. Babies aren’t robots! What worked yesterday might not work today.
The Lesson: Bridging naps, especially for toddlers, need to be handled with flexibility. While younger babies can benefit from a bridging nap to prevent overtiredness, older babies and toddlers (past 12 months) often manage better with longer wake windows and less nap interference.
Guidelines for Using Bridging Naps
✅ For Babies Under 6 Months
Ideal in the early morning (after a 5:00 AM wake-up)
Helps prevent too-long wake windows before the first official nap
Can be done in arms, in the car, or pram
Aim for 10-15 minutes, then gently wake them to preserve enough sleep drive for their next nap
✅ For Babies 6-12 Months
Use sparingly, mainly in the morning
Watch for signs of nap resistance after a bridging nap—this can signal it’s time to drop it
Avoid long bridging naps, as they may reduce the drive for proper naps
✅ For Toddlers 12+ Months
Consider bridging naps only in unique situations (e.g., after daycare, early wake-ups)
Afternoon bridging naps after 1:30 PM can be helpful to avoid overtired evenings but may lead to later bedtimes
Not a daily tool—more of a back-up strategy
Important Things to Remember
Bridging naps are short-term solutions. As your child grows, their sleep patterns will change, and what worked before may no longer be needed.
Every child is different. Some babies respond beautifully to bridging naps; others may skip their next nap altogether. Experiment, observe, and adjust.
Focus on overall rhythm. The goal is to help your baby (and you!) enjoy smoother days—not to follow rigid rules.
A Personal Note from the Podcast
As shared in our latest podcast episode, the goal of parenting isn’t to have all the answers—it’s to figure it out on the go as our children grow. Bridging naps are just one of many evolving tools in the parenting toolkit. They aren’t a magic fix, but they can be incredibly helpful on those chaotic days.
Final Takeaway
Bridging naps can help you navigate tricky mornings, prevent overtiredness, and create smoother days for both you and your little one. They’re not a long-term fix—but when used well, they can make a real difference in your sleep routine.
Have you tried bridging naps before?
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“The point of parenting is not to have all the answers before we start out, but instead figure it out on the go as our children grow. Because as they do, so will we.”
